When a woman of a certain tribe in Africa, knows she is pregnant, she goes into the jungle with other women and together they pray and meditate until they get the “song of the child.” When the child is born, the community comes together and they sing the song. So when the child enters education, the people get together and sing the song. When the child becomes an adult, they get together and sing again. When it comes time of the marriage he listens to his song Finally, when his soul is to go from this world, family and friends close to him, and same as at birth, sing his song to accompany him on the trip. “In this African tribe there is another occasion on which the men sing the song. If at some point the person commits a crime or aberrant social act, they lead up to the center of town and the community people form a circle around him. Then they sing their song. ” “The tribe recognizes that the correction for pipelines anti-social behavior is not punishment; is love and the memory of his true identity. When we recognize our own song we no longer need or desire to harm anyone. ” “Your friends know your song and sing when you forget it. Those who love you can not be fooled by mistakes you have made They remember your beauty when you feel ugly; your wholeness when you are broken; your innocence when you feel guilty and your purpose when you’re confused.